Dear Kemi,
I am 30 while my wife is 27. I am from Imo
State, while she hails from Delta but throughout our four-year courtship, it
was from one quarrel to the other and this got me into having other affairs.
This woman nags and she is very disobedient but I thought that after marriage,
she would change. Ironically, she did not but grew worse after our first child.
Currently, she ran to my family members and demanded for a divorce. I have been
summoned for a meeting but I know that the love in this marriage has disappeared
and I have made up my mind to leave her but how do I tell my family that I am
dying in this marriage? What do I do?
P.P
Abuja
You
have not indicated how old the marriage is but I perceive you are both
experiencing teething problems in a young marriage of two young persons. Why do
you want to make a hasty decision now? I am sure she acted out of
impatience/intolerance when asked for a divorce. A husband needs all the patience
and tolerance because women are very impulsive in reacting to issues and are
more emotional than men. So, attend the meeting, let your people know how you
also feel and you will both be advised on how to handle a marriage. You can
give her another chance, even if it’s for the sake of your child
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