This pretty
lady and mother of one shared photos and details of how the father of her
daughter turned her into a punching bag for many months. Now, she is declaring
war against domestic violence. She shared on IG:
“Enough is Enough!! It’s now time
for me to speak up and let the whole world know the kind of person you are..
you have succeeded in ruining me in Lagos and made people I don’t even know
hate me and my existence. I know I was to blame from the outset. I was that
naive lil girl that went after p***k instead of school! Curse me all you want,
I don’t care. The mental, physical and emotional trauma you have put me through
is ENOUGH! I have endured in silence for the sake of my daughter but today I
choose to be an example to her and put a stop to the violence and abuse. I had
people I didn’t even know hate me from the start of our relationship, because
you put up the perfect show for the public and made it seem like you were the
only person In love and my affection and love towards you was inexistent. You
made it seem like I was in charge whereas you were the DON and WIFE BATTERER
from the start. All through the years I was loyal to a cheat who doesn’t want
to be cheated on but would cheat on me with the cheapest street urchin! You go
all around conquering my frenemies with your sexcapades yet you have a tracker
in my car, my phone, and monitor every call and message that passes through!
FAST FORWARD to early 2013, you came out of your shell, the worst moment of my
life began…It seemed like I was in a trance as he’d hit me at the slightest
disagreement.." (sic)
"PART 2 I engaged in different habits (things I wouldn’t do in my
right senses). I left school ‘cos you insisted you would put me in a better one
and also promised to see me through till the end ( A PROMISE YOU WOEFULLY
FAILED TO KEEP)…Well maybe in my next life!!!! Remember how I was never ready
and cried everyday about being pregnant and everyone wanting me to have the baby
Including you!! Remember how I sat you down asked you and planned a better
future for us????!!! 5months into my pregnancy his true colors began to unveil.
He turned up his womanizing game from 40 – 400 real quick . I Stayed up most
nights calling just to know if he was okay but he wouldn’t respond!!! I was
5MONTHS PREGNANT YET YOU STAYED OUT EVERY OTHER NIGHT!! On my birthday HE
claimed he was going to get me a cake he came back 2am ( please o need the
number of the cake shop that operates at 2am in Lagos)! When he got home, his
phone kept ringing and the recurrent call was tagged “KARMA”!! I had a nagging
feeling that it was a false name, so I dialed the number on my phone, saved it,
then went on whatsapp. To my greatest surprise, @gbemyy picture that popped
up!! My supposed friend on IG… I was stunned and wondered why a Random girl
would call him at that time, I couldn’t keep it to myself so I confronted him
and he insisted that she was just a friend.. Little did I know that they had
been seeing behind my back all along.. Gbemy IF YOU ARE READING THIS BE REST
ASSURED THAT I AM AWARE THE CLOTHES HIS FAMILY MEMBERS WORE ON MY CHILD’S
CHRISTENING WAS FROM YOU!!! AND GOD WILL JUDGE YOU ACCORDINGLY!” PART 3 How
about when I had my baby? Two weeks later he turned me into his punching bag,
he knew I just had a baby, i bled for months before I could get better,
remember when you kept beating me and broke your hand in the process and
everyone blamed me for your broken arm? I covered up for him most times and my
mom witnessed most of his abuse, still I stayed and kept on with smiley faces!
SHAME ON ME! It got to a point I stopped bothering people around me with my
problems cos at the end of the day they all say the same thing. “Stay there
because of your baby” You speak ill of the same girls you introduced to me,
same girls that always make sure we sort things out and not let the world laugh
at us, same girls that see your fuckup and still cover for you. These are the
only girls I could call 1am at night when you’ve almost killed me and still
come to my rescue! Segun fear God! My family don’t mean shit to you.. you
disrespect my mom every now and then. Your family hates me and everything that
concerns me! Well that story is not for today.. I hope you told all your friends
how much of a devil you are, i hope you told them how many times I had to use
concealer on my face just to get to the gate cos you had beaten me blue black,
I hope you told them I’ve had to fend for myself and my baby, I hope you told
them you are not perfect… coz last time I checked I was always the bad person
and you the saint.. Today I choose to stop the Domestic Violence! For the
millions of young girls who’ve had to endure abuse for the sake of one thing or
the other, for the sake of my daughter, I END THIS TODAY!!!"(sic)
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