For one who has been rumoured to have found a man who loves her and ready to marry her, this is a salvo to men!
The
divorced mother of two teenagers, Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo shared her
thoughts on cheating husbands on her Instagram handle today, January 21.
Advising
women, she wrote:
“Ladies, Not every man who cheats on u is
bad! it's in their nature to cheat as every man has a bit of it deposited in
them. He may love u but still cheat on u, as long as he respect, care n keeps
it far away from u. it's a twisted world my dear but that's just d fact. if u
find one who doesn't cheat on u then u are blessed but A man who makes u feel
less of ur self, a man who enjoys seeing u beg n wail, a man who doesn't care
if u fall into depression a million times until U run mad, a man who makes u
feel like nothing, a man who throws ur love back 2 ur face @ every given
opportunity, a man who feels u are so unattractive that he doesn't want to take
u out anymore giving u that low self esteem, a man who never appreciate
anything u do for him, a man who feels ur opinion doesn't count, a man who
feels u shld be seen n not heard, a man who feels without him u are nothing, a
man who will only have u when he wants u, a man who doesn't fight for u, a man
who condemns u to his friends n side chicks, a man who looks @ u with so much
irritation, a man who flaunts his side chick in front of u, a man who is physically
& mentally abusive towards u n sometimes ur kids, a Man U have to always
beg to perform his manly duty b4 he agrees to touch u! That man is so bad n so
wrong 4 u, stop asking me what shld I do? Oh the society n my friends will mock
me, oh my kids! Hello woman, wake up he doesn't love you, stop looking for
excuses for him, his love was never real in d first place, Mrs is not a do or
die matter, ur happiness shld always come first, u shld always come first, it's
only when u are in the right frame of mind that u can take gud care of ur kids.
For the record, mothers who vent their anger on their kids for failed husband
issues shld stop it! No be them send u message, u made d choice n it turned out
wrong, u can always make it right without him! u either die trying or take a
reality check n walk out! it's never too late! If u stay in it well - all d
best! Its a lost battle n u are on ur own. Ur happiness must always come first
if u truly want to live for ur kids n urself.” (sic)
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