What To Do When Its Obvious He Would Not Give You A Ring

Expecting that its time for him to propose and he is avoiding you? Avoids your calls and text messages? Doesn’t include you in his plans anymore? Here is help for you

Make a move

Do not overreact. Then, don’t be too anxious because the problem with your relationship might be trivial. Just identify that there is a problem and notify your partner. Hard as it may seem and be difficult to, this step can save you many ugly moments.

Communicate, please

The characteristics of a successful relationship are, communication, commitment, trust and love. If your relationship is missing even one of these qualities, it may hit the rocks. Just like a delicate thread, you keep the bond of love strong with open communication. You feel guy is falling out of love? Talk to him. Ask him why he is ignoring you. He may keep his cell phone switched off just to avoid you. Meet him in person. Avoid discussing things over the phone, through text messages, via e-mails or through chats. Do it face to face.

Seek explanation

Let him know your observation of him avoiding you. Allow him tender his explanation and let him know that you would not go without getting proper answers to your doubts. Do not say something that will hurt your partner’s feelings. You are still together. Your partner may be going through a bad phase. He may be depressed as he got rejected in the job interview or he is hesitating to tell you something. Find out the root cause of his behavior. Life will surely get on track once again. However, remember you do not have to be forceful and keep calling every minute, demanding an explanation.

Give some space
Sometimes, emotions are hard to understand. Give your partner some space. Leave him alone for a few days. When he will be okay, he will get back to you. Meanwhile spend time alone. Let your partner spend time alone too in order for him to know the situation in better ways. Do not argue or blame your partner. Do not say things like, ‘you have changed’ or ‘you are not the one with whom I fell in love at first sight.’ Time heals. Be patient and see whether things improve.

Think again
If you have discussed the reason for his lack of interest in you, if you have given him enough time, if you have waited enough to improve the situation and nothing is coming out of it, then it is better you move on. Let go. If the person is the one for you, he will come back. Otherwise that person is just not meant for you. If it is clear that your relationship is going nowhere and is on verge of break-up, do not cling to it.

Believe in yourself

Then, be patience. Avoid explaining to your partner how nice it would be being together. Stay calm come what may, you will be glad you did. Trust yourself and go on with life. It is not worth a person who does not need or deserve you.