Dating for a while and you sense a sudden coldness in your
boyfriend? You have asked him what was wrong and he is not giving a concrete
answer? Oh! He gets angry and leaves your house at the slightest provocation? Then
you need to know this: That guy is no longer interested in you! Probably, he is
seeing someone else and does not know how to tell you. Love is a feeling and
when it is no longer there, you will know. There is no need to be confused,
just watch out for the following signs:
He
never treats you as before
He no longer treats you the way he used to. Any
unexplained change in his behaviour, especially if he used to be very loving,
should tell you that there is another woman in his life.
No
more valuable time spent together
Before now, whenever he hangs out with you, he would
beg you to wait a little longer. If you suggested going home, he would do all
he could to make you stay. Now, he is the one suggesting that you call it a
night. Watch it, his heart is elsewhere!
Your
dishes don’t appeal to him
Now, he is no longer hungry unlike when your food used
to be irresistible! Then he would wait till eternity for the meal to be ready,
but all that have stopped. He hardly eats your meals and gives all forms of
excuses about his eating schedule instead.
Sex
is irrelevant
Before, he was a sex addict and would not allow you
rest. Now, he is in a hurry to finish with you and get out of bed. He now
prefers ‘short time’. Worst still,
he does not even want it and he is full of excuses—fatigue, work stress, traffic
gridlock and many more. Meanwhile, he is still doing the same job and nothing
has changed about his lifestyle.
His
manners too
Now, your guy becomes more secretive, starts sneaking
around, he is hiding things and running to a corner to pick calls, he does not
feel that it is necessary to share stories about his day-to-day activities with
you. He is acting like a scared cat—he avoids any confrontation or even small,
sincere talks. He declines any of your offers to sit down and have a discussion
regarding a matter. Girl, know that he no longer loves you.
He
is not in the mood for anything!
Romance has become a turn off—he is not in the mood for
something romantic. No romantic dinner
or spontaneous gifts for you on your birthday. If you tell him ‘I love you’ he
doesn’t show any enthusiasm or response.
He has stopped discussing sex or related topics.
He
hardly talks to you
That guy has stopped communicating with you. He
wouldn’t share his feelings or what problems he is facing; neither does he
trust you anymore. The phone calls that came three times a day before are now
coming once in three day! Even then, he wants to find out something that has
nothing to do with love.
He
picks on you
Everything becomes an argument. He has become
disrespectful and would say even the most hurtful words. These are indeed
warning signs that your man no longer loves you, he has moved on with his life,
so take a cue, move on!
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