When
a fan attacked actress Ebube Nwagbo to go and get married instead of posting
pictures on Instagram, little did she know that Ebube also desires a man to
marry. In this interview, the actress who once dated musician Kcee spoke on her
marital status
Why are you still single?
Nothing,
I’ll get married at the right time.
Rumor
making the rounds is that you are terrified of marriage, how true is this?
Wow!
Well, I don’t know where that story is coming out from because I’ve not granted
an interview in years, about 3 or 4-years now. So, I don’t know where that
rumour is coming from. I remember saying marriage is a big deal to me and if I
have to do it then it has to be right. What marriages are going through right
now in my industry is crazy.
No one goes into marriage and thinks of getting
out of it the next minute, but for some reason it doesn’t work out. It’s not me
trying to blame anyone now, but it does happen. For me, if I have to do it,
I’ve to do it right, marriage is a big deal for me if I’m going to do it, it’s
going to be at the right time and not out of pressure because the same people
who rush you into it would be the same people who would later make jest of you.
What
are the worst things ever written about you?
A
lot, I don’t even want to begin to think or talk about them. Talking about it
would give them something to talk and write about. Most things written about me
out there are not true, but I try to ignore and give my attention to what is
more important. You can’t keep addressing everything that is written about you.
In as much as people believe what they write, if it’s something I don’t want to
talk about, I’ll rather not say.
The
worst scandal I’ve heard is about you and Kcee, what’s your relationship like
with him now?
When
somebody writes something about you and it’s not true it’s painful, especially
when it’s not true. If you actually did something and they are writing about it
then you may feel remorse about it, but if you didn’t it, would be really
heart-breaking. The thing is, I’ve developed a very thick skin, I don’t care
anymore. Before, It used to affect me a lot, at a time, I said I was going to
quit Nollywood. But now I think I’ve learnt how to tackle these things, based
on what I do everybody doesn’t have to like you. The ones who like you like you
and the ones who don’t like you there is nothing you can do about it. I’ve
learnt to focus on the most important things and ignore the negative things
that are written about me. I’ve learnt that the older I get the wiser I also
get. I started acting in Nollywood as a young girl, so I’ve grown a lot; I’ve
had so many experiences, so I see such stories as the downsides of my
profession.
Are you dating anyone at the moment?
Yes,
why won’t I have a man in my life? I’m a young girl, so of course, why not? If
I say I don’t have a man in my life people may ask if I’m possessed or
something (laughs). Yes, I want to get married but at the right time, I’m not
one of those people who do something out of pressure, no, I would not do that.
What’s
your ideal man?
First
of all, I like a man that respects me, lots of men out there don’t respect
women, especially young people like us. Being in the limelight is enough stress
on its own, so you have to be with someone that respects you as a person, so
respect is very key for me.
Source: Vanguard
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