Musician Flavour's Baby Mama Speaks, "I Wouldn’t Have Aborted My Baby No Matter What'

Anna's Baby

She was crowned Most Beautiful Girl In Nigeria in 2013 when she was 18 years old. A lover of exquisite style, Bayelsa State-born Anna Banner has poise and elegance that belong in the realm of royals. Not a few were disappointed when she was romantically linked with musician Flavour and later became a Baby Mama. The affair produced a daughter.

Recently, she opened up on the pains of falling in love with a man who many women want his heart. The question is why did this young princess with alabaster complexion become a Baby Mama? In an interview with blogger Stella Dimoko Korkus, she revealed that:

“I never decided to become a baby mama, I just fell in love. I fell in love and got pregnant unexpectedly for the man I loved. I had never gotten pregnant before and I was scared of abortion. I decided to keep my baby no matter what. I never tried to hold a man down or force marriage on anyone with my pregnancy. You know in life, the hardest decisions always turn out beautiful. I don't regret keeping my baby one bit. She is my greatest achievement in life so far. I fall in love with her every second of the day.”

Then, she threw the bombshell—she has parted ways with Flavour.

Anna and Flavour

“Yes we are no longer together. I made this decision recently. I spoke to myself and decided it was time to move on and focus on my future and career,” she stated.

Though she said both parties “are cool with the idea” the interview shifted to why she became ‘a husband-snatcher’ when she knew Sandra Okagbue, a model and now Baby Mama, was dating Flavour and was pregnant for him.

At this juncture, she revealed how some men tell lies to women they are dating.

She said, “I never knew Flavour was with another woman while we were dating. We started dating way before 'Golibe’ was composed.  He never mentioned or admitted he had any relationship with anyone even after rumour had it that he was dating someone else and she was even pregnant for him. I believed him.”
Didn’t she confront him?
“I confronted him again when I heard she had put to bed and it seemed true. He accepted after much talk but unfortunately I was already pregnant. I never knew I was pregnant until I was one month gone. What was I supposed to do? Take out my precious child? Hell no. I believe God sent her to me for a reason. So you see, it was never my intention to break anybody's relationship or come in between two lovers. I just never knew. For those of you out there judging and persecuting me for something you know nothing about, let me ask, ‘Are you better than I am?’  Is it okay by God for you to judge me when He has forgiven me all my sins? I made an adult decision at a young age and I am so proud of myself for keeping my baby.

“People always say I am competing and fighting with someone all because of a man. Really? Fighting and competing? That’s too much energy. Seeking a man's attention is never and has never been my thing! I'm not done seeking God and my daughter's attention. People always refer to me as ‘husband snatcher’ but please that is not the case. Many of have been victims of love and I am sure we all know that when a woman is deeply in love, she believes everything her man tells her. I am not a husband snatcher. I was just naive of a lot of things and everyday I ask God to give me wisdom to see well and make the right choices.
Is there any rivalry between the two Baby Mamas? She denied such.
“No I am not in competition with anyone and there has been no confrontation and I don’t see that happening.”
Despite all, she said is still a friend to the Na’bania crooner.

She said, “Flavour and I are still very good friends. Chinedu is a very nice person with a big heart. We talk about almost everything. I respect him a lot because he is a good person. He has been an awesome father to his child and I respect him for that. He goes extra length to make his daughter happy. He has a beautiful soul.”

Since she has dropped the toga of Baby mama, the beautiful mother of one disclosed her decision to go back to school.

“I plan to go back to school and I plan on a whole lot of things. I won’t say my getting pregnant put a setback on my plans because my baby is the best thing that ever happened to me but I have plans to return to school soon. The future is bright for me.”

Is she happier now?

“It’s a 50/50 situation,” she said.

Anna

To Anna, happiness is defined in different ways.

“Most of the times, I am happy, most of the time I am not. Most times I have a lot on my mind and most times I am very happy. I think about what I should have done; what I could have done, what I didn’t do right and what I should do right. It’s not a permanent feeling and I will be fine. My mind is free. Love is pain but there is a limit to pain and I choose to walk free,” she concluded.