SOULMATES

1. Sex/age/profession: Woman, 39, into business

Other details: Nigerian, educated, 5ft 6”, pretty, dark-complexioned, single, based in Ibadan and a Christian

Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, south west, educated/employed/into business, tall, and a Christian. He should be in his 40s.

Contact: 08120881049

2. Sex/age/profession: Man, 38, into business

Other details: Nigerian, Ibadan, 5ft 10”, dark-complexioned, a Moslem, single and based in Lagos

Spouse specification: Woman, Nigerian, south west, educated/employed/into business and must be a Moslem. Age could be between 22-28 years and must be based in Lagos

Contact: 08060528558/08183465972

3. Sex/age/profession: Woman, 30, employed

Other details: Nigerian, Kwara, dark-complexioned, single, homely, and educated

Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, any tribe, educated/employed/into business. Age could be between 40-60 years

Contact: 07088475842/08064762205

 4. Sex/age/profession: Man, 47, into business

Other details: Nigerian, south west, a Christian, single and based in Ogun State

Spouse specification: Woman, Nigerian, any tribe, educated/employed/into business and must be a Christian. Age could be between 25-32 years

Contact: 08033673535

5. Sex/age/profession: Woman, 31, employed

Other details: Nigerian, south west, educated, average height, pretty, fair-complexioned, busty and single

 Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, romantic and age could be between 37-58 years

Contact: 08167310186

6. Sex/age/profession: Man, 50, self-employed

Other details: Nigerian, Edo, educated, single, a Christian and based in Lagos

 Spouse specification: Woman, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, romantic and age could be between 30-45 years

Contact: 07050945756

7. Sex/age/profession: Woman, 26, employed

Other details: Nigerian, south west, educated, fair-complexioned, pretty, single and a Moslem

 Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, must be a Moslem and age could be between 30-45 years

Contact: 08189519778

8. Sex/age/profession: Woman, 48, into business

Other details: Nigerian, Delta, educated, fair-complexioned, average height, pretty, a widow, a Christian and based in Lagos

 Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, a Christian and age could be between 50-70 years

Contact: 08059352141

9. Sex/age/profession: Man, 33, employed

Other details: Nigerian, south south, 5ft 8”, dark-complexioned, educated, single, a Christian and based in Lagos

 Spouse specification: Woman, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, single/divorced and age could be between 33-40 years

Contact: 07036153527

10. Sex/age/profession: Man, 35, employed

Other details: Nigerian, south east, 5ft, educated, single, and a Christian

Spouse specification: Woman, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, and age could be between 25-32 years

Contact: 08030786799

SOULMATES

1. Sex/age/profession: Man, 39, employed

Other details: Nigerian, north central, 5ft 8”, a Christian and single

Spouse specification: Woman, Nigerian, north, preferably Nasarawa and Kogi. Tall/average height educated/employed and a Christian. Age could be between 23-28 years

Contact: 08094481059

2. Sex/age/profession: Woman, 55, into business

Other details: British born, south west, divorced and a Christian

Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, south west, educated/into business as a friend and confidant. Age could be between 55-70 years

Contact: 08094446834

2. Sex/age/profession: Man, 67, retired

Other details: Nigerian, south west, 5ft 6”, a Christian, a widower and based in Lagos

Spouse specification: Woman, Nigerian, south west, educated/employed/into business must be based in Lagos, a widow and a Christian. Age could be between 48-56 years

Contact: 08092438214

4 Sex/age/profession: Man, 30, employed

Other details: Nigerian, south south, average height, dark-complexioned, a Christian and single

Spouse specification: Woman, Nigerian, pretty, educated/employed/into business, and a Christian. Age could be between 22-28 years

Contact:08065189312

5 Sex/age/profession: Woman, 34, employed

Other details: Nigerian, south west, 5ft 6”, dark-complexioned, single, romantic, intelligent, respectful, and a Christian

Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business. Age could be between 34-45 years

Contact: 07038227245/09090331155

6. Sex/age/profession: Man, 43, employed

Other details: Nigerian, Edo, dark-complexioned, romantic, a Christian, single and based in Lagos

Spouse specification: Woman, Nigerian, any tribe, educated/employed/into business, romantic, and a Christian. Age could be between 28-38 years

Contact: 08057913002

7 Sex/age/profession: Woman, 39, employed

Other details: Nigerian, south west, single, and a Christian

Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, south west, educated/employed/into business, a Christian, must be single. Age could be between 40-45 years

Contact: 07054884043

8. Sex/age/profession: Woman, 30, employed

Other details: Nigerian, south west, average height, dark-complexioned, single, gentle, and a Christian

Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, honest. Age could be between 38-54 years

Contact: 07037582371

9.  Sex/age/profession: Woman, 31, self-employed

Other details: Nigerian, Akure, tall, dark-complexioned, single, caring, romantic and a Christian

Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business. Age could be between 40-60 years

Contact: 08021103361

10.  Sex/age/profession: Woman, 30, self-employed

Other details: Nigerian, south west, average height, fair-complexioned, busty, single, caring and gentle

Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business. Age could be between 38-60 years

Contact: 08169544278

JUST SINGLES

Before he punches you

Lara wears a false tooth and it cost a fortune to acquire one. Everyone says it looks good on her. However, she ought not to have any business visiting a dentist but Jide, her boyfriend, gave her a punch on the mouth during one of their numerous squabbles.

 “Jide and I have been together for almost three years and he beats me at the slightest provocation. The first time he hit me was three months into our relationship. He bought me several gifts and even sent his sister to plead with me saying it would never happen again. Now, I have lost count of the number of times he has hit me and I fear for my life. Anytime I threaten to leave him, he, in return, threatens to kill me if I dare it. Already I am thinking of relocating to another town because I no longer feel safe,” she says.

Nkechi does not seem to know what she wants and that is why her friends have left her to her fate. Dave, a man she is supposed to be getting married to in a few months, has proved to be the devil himself, judging by the intensity with which he abuses her physically. Efforts by her family and friends to make her leave him yield no fruit because she believes he beats her because he loves me.

“Dave is not a bad man, he hits me because I have done wrong and he feels the only way he can correct me is to give me a few jabs,” explains the distraught spinster.

Ask Amina, she would tell you that Adam is the most loving man she has met but she would not forget to add that he is also the most brutal man that she has crossed path with. “He is a very jealous man and easily gets suspicious. A few weeks ago, I ran into my cousin, Mike, who I had not seen in up to a decade. We embraced warmly like long lost lovers and it was at that moment Adam appeared and in an instant began to slap Mike. I tried explaining that he is a relative of mine but instead of listening he pounced on me and beat me black and blue. Not his first time, these beatings have become too frequent but my parents have said that they will not live to see me quit the romance just because he is responsible for their upkeep.”

Let’s get talking

Ladies you are too precious and beautiful to allow a man pummel you. Often regarded as the weaker sex, women are unquestionably the greatest victims of physical and emotional abuse. The most damaging abuse is emotional abuse because it can be more difficult to overcome. If your man is emotionally abusing you, please get out of the relationship.

There are too many men who emotionally abuse their women and do not see the tremendous damage   they are doing to them. Most of these men follow up emotional abuse with physical violence. It starts with a push, a slap and then it graduates to blows and then you are left with a black eye, bruised arms and with time you find yourself hospitalised. Some women even lose their lives in the process.

To the bachelorettes, know that if he hits you once, he is never going to stop. No amount of begging or cajoling should stop you from making the dash. A woman beater is a potential murderer, so run!

10 SINGLES UP FOR GRAB

1.Sex/age/profession: Man, 30, employed

Other details: Nigerian, Imo, 6ft, a Christian, single and based in Benin

Spouse specification: Woman, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, a Christian, and age could be between 20-28 years.

Contact: 07069706945

2.Sex/age/profession: Woman, 28, self-employed

Other details: Nigerian, east, 5ft 6”, pretty, dark-complexioned, a Christian and based in Lagos

Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, a Christian, and age could be between 32-40 years.

Contact: 08022181711

3. Sex/age/profession: Man, 36, employed

Other details: Nigerian, Delta, 5ft 2”, single, a Christian and based in Lagos

Spouse specification: Woman, Nigerian, any tribe, educated/employed/into business, a Christian, and age could be between 25-35 years.

Contact: 08099133875

4. Sex/age/profession: Woman, 30, employed

Other details: Nigerian, south west, average height”, fair-complexioned, a Christian

Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, a Christian, and age could be between 34-56 years.

Contact: 08130760584

5. Sex/age/profession: Man, 49, into business

Other details: Nigerian, Kwara, dark-complexioned, a Moslem and based in Lagos

Spouse specification: Woman, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, a Moslem but must be based in Lagos. Age could be between 30-40 years.

Contact: 08082108948

6. Sex/age/profession: Woman, 29, employed

Other details: Nigerian, Akure, fair-complexioned, a Christian and single

Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, a Christian, and age could be between 36-60 years.

Contact: 08101735951

7. Sex/age/profession: Woman, 24, student

Other details: Nigerian, east, average height, pretty, a Christian

Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, a Christian, and age could be between 30-50 years.

Contact: 08137443890

8. Sex/age/profession: Woman, 28, employed

Other details: Nigerian, Oyo, 5ft, dark-complexioned, a Christian

Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, a Christian, and must be based in the south west. Age could be between 30-40 years.

Contact: 07050914720

9. Sex/age/profession: Man, 60, self-employed

Other details: Nigerian, south-south, a widower, and a Christian

Spouse specification: Woman, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, homely, caring, a Christian, and age could be between 35-40 years.

Contact: 08126561919

10. Sex/age/profession: Woman, 45, self-employed

Other details: Nigerian, Osun, 5ft, single, a Christian and based in Abuja

Spouse specification: Man, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, tall, a widower, a Christian, and age could be between 50-55 years. He must be based in Abuja

Contact: 08052471562