LOVE MATTERS

My girlfriend is still a prostitute

Dear Kemi,

I dated a lady for eight years despite the fact that I met her as a prostitute. She is loving, caring, respectful and hardworking. We agreed getting married in future but after I was deported from Europe and also lost my job, she called off the relationship, went back to the hotel and was dating a younger lover. For two years, I was traumatised and almost committed suicide. Now, she has been calling me and making efforts for a return but I am afraid of what she did before and just want her as a friend. I have already forgiven her but I told her no more romance. What do you think?

C.K

Abia

Kemi advises

Why stress yourself over her? A dog will always go back to its vomit. I am sure the younger guy too lost his means of livelihood and she needs a greener pasture. Don’t make the mistake of dating her again because she will do worse things that could lead to you having stroke. Watch it and steer clear of her.

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LOVE MATTERS

I love this prostitute

Dear Kemi,

I am 27 years old. Recently, I was at a hotel, met with a prostitute and since then, my heart has desired her. Besides, I slept with her that day. Is it possible for me to lure her from that place? I really want to win her to Christ and for her to be my wife because I want to settle down. I have sent her wonderful text messages using God’s word. What do I do?

M.O   

Lagos.

Kemi advises

I am sure you would have been patronising prostitutes but you just got stuck with this one. This girl would not believe your message because you were one of her customers. Or how does a Christian brother explain his mission to a brothel especially when he never went there for evangelism? Mind you, conversion in Christianity is not as you have imagined it. Even if you succeed in luring her away from the brothel based on your selfish desire, this could boomerang and you have the worst whore for a wife. My advice is simple: work on your spiritual well-being, learn to control your sexual urges and you can inform some other Christians to go and evangelise to her. Conversion is a process, which is nurtured with God’s word and not asking her for marriage on the spot.