WOMAN NEEDS A MAN

Woman, 35, employed, a Nigerian, Delta, average height, single mother of two and based in Ibadan

WANTS

Man, Nigerian, educated/employed/into business, honest and single. Age could be between 35-42 years

Contact: 08154893503

AFTER DATING HER, I WANT HER SISTER

Dear Kemi,

I am 27 years and I dated a girl for about two years. She broke up with me because she wanted to be serious with her studies. I had her sister's contact while we were dating and she knew about it. But after calling it quits with her, I began chatting with the elder sister on the phone and we became very friendly with each other. Then, I still added her on my Blackberry and this made us chat regularly; she even used my picture as her display picture a couple of times. I feel that I love her but I don’t know how to tell her about it. I dated her sister and don’t know if our friendship is going to end when I eventually ask her out. I want to know if it is wrong to date the sister of my ex girlfriend. What should I do?

P.O,

Lagos

Kemi advises:

It’s wrong to ask her sister out. Are you sure she knew you dated her younger sister? If she does, I don’t see why she should be splashing your pictures on her Blackberry. In no time, I am sure a war will start among sisters just because of you. Please be careful before you end up in trouble with this family.

I LOVE CHASING RICH MEN'S WIVES

Dear Kemi,

I am 23 years and live in Victoria Garden City in Lagos. Lately, I have realised that I am always attracted to women who are other men’s wives. Their husbands are rich and the women in the estate are young, beautiful and they are my taste. I have dated a few of them and it even got me into trouble. I don’t have a
girlfriend currently. What do I do?

P.O,

Lagos.

Kemi advises

I think at 23 years, you are too young to be playing with fire. You are inviting trouble and very soon, if you don’t desist, you could eat more than you can chew. How do you expect women to look like in a highbrow area? They have the wherewithal to take care of their bodies and look beautiful. Let those women be before their husbands make you embark on a journey of no return.